Relationship
I am going to say this once again, just to make it clear. Uncle M and I are NOT having sex or any form of a sexual relationship. Period. A man will take pictures of a naked woman and be called an artist. Yet as soon as the model is clothed and in bondage, people automatically start assuming that the rigger is having a sexual relationship with his models. While this is the case with some other sites, that is not what happens over here at Brandi Bondage. We have done our best to break away from the old routines and practices from other websites with the lack of nudity, sex, and violence. The other thing we need to break away from is the relationship assumption of the rigger and models. We enjoy having women come to us in order to be comfortable as a work of art without any expectations from myself or Uncle M. Women to us are not only art, but their own empowered individual that deserves to be free to model without the predetermined assumption that they are also part of some dirty old man’s harem. Myself included.
As a testament to Uncle M’s character, other than myself, Uncle M is the only person who has ever put my partner into any type of bondage. This says a lot, since she is a private person and is shy around people she doesn’t know. She’s only met Uncle M once, but was comfortable with him right away. She enjoyed the experience when Uncle M hogtied her. She would not have allowed Uncle M to tie her if she thought in any way that Uncle M was a “dirty old man”.
Rik,
Thank you so much for your post, as you have actually touched a topic that not only irritates me, but has caused enough pain and anguish in my life that I have actually started seeking relationships outside of the scene. I’m currently writing an essay on said topic, so I’ll leave it at that for now.
bravo I say to both of you, Brandi and Uncle M. I have found this assumed aspect of sexuality to be practically insurmountable for me as a person who adores tying others and being tied. It matters little that I do my rigging dressed in fetish female wear, my dangly bits under the clothing are there, and the assumption is that I would somehow be phallic and reproductively fluidic during bondage rigging in almost every circumstance. Applause to the very small group of understanding females (and a few males) who realize I am telling the truth, and applause to BrandiBondage for taking a stand against gossip, hearsay and incorrect assumptions.
Well said my number one! Funny how people think bondage=sex. We are all working damn hard at Brandibondage to create and produce something special in the way of bondage art that does not involve sex acts.