Bondage and Sex
Bondage, to many people, is often portrayed in a completely sexual light. You look at most Internet websites and you see women bound, gagged, blindfolded and being violated in every orifice. At Brandi Bondage, we strive to portray women in tight, beautiful, erotic bondage. We don’t portray our models sexually. However, sex and bondage is a wonderful and exciting experience.
There are many books on the market that portray bondage positions for submission, decoration, and sex. But, coming from experience, sex while in bondage is actually not as easy as some people might say. The easiest for most people to comprehend is being tied spread eagle onto a bed or a table. Simple, sweet, and leaves the bottom, be it male or female, completely exposed for sexual activities, including intercourse. It’s easy on both parties and can be used for a lengthy period of time. Compared to the hogtie, it is a delicious way to restrain a bottom for devious purposes.
Now, the hogtie, a favorite of Uncle M, has one really wonderful function. Oral sex. It is extremely difficult to get away from your play partner when their pushing the genitals into your face and you can’t struggle more than a couple of inches. It’s virtually impossible to have actual intercourse in a hogtie without losing circulation from maneuvering the two bodies around. Be warned: it will work the bottom’s neck muscles, so it will take a bit of practice for the bottom to get really good at it.
My personal favorite is the crab tie, as it restrains the bottom’s hands and legs enough that they can’t get too far away, but it leaves them open for intercourse in a variety of positions. With the option of being able to split the legs enough to get between them, it’s much more convenient for sexual purposes. Any tie that involves having the bottom’s legs split open is optimum for the more intimate aspects of play.
The one thing you really have to remember when having sex in bondage is that the bottom is going to be moving against the ropes. As the ropes move, they can constrict, so as much fun as it is to play around and manipulate your bottom in whatever ways you desire, remember that the rope is capable of pulling tight on them. I’ve lost count of the number of times I’ve been enjoying myself thouroughly with a partner when I’ve had to say the words, “I can’t feel my hands/feet” while they’re mid orgasm. This is one point where scissors are about the only thing that won’t wreck the mood. And I’ve gone through more rope that way than in a bondage shoot. Mind you, it is always worth it
.xoxo Brandi