Misconceptions
When I met Uncle M, which was less than a year ago, I had no idea what to expect. I certainly did not anticipate this wonderful website. And meeting all these wonderful people who help out. But a few misconceptions have arisen and need to be touched upon. I have noticed most of these through facebook where I have posted several photos from the website in my profile. Let me illuminate the grey areas.
I am not a submissive. Far from it actually, I just happen to love being tied up. And just because I wear rope (and quite well, or so I am told) does not mean I will wear it for just everyone. Bondage takes a lot of trust. Uncle M is not only my rigger and my Master, he is also a very dear friend. The trust we have for each other was immediate and has become very important to both of us.
The second thing I would like to comment on is that I am not, nor will I ever be, a person’s slave. I have had requests coming out my ears to be someone’s personal slave. While I understand, respect, and enjoy the fact that consenusal D/s relationships exists, it is not one of my practices. When I call Uncle M my Master, it is in a Master/apprentice aspect. For those who requested that I be their “slave”, be it in person or online (which I believe there is no point it), they are not only disrespecting me, but Uncle M as well. I am not for sale. Nor am I in the market for a slave.
The third misconception I need to clear up is communication. If you have input or would like to see a change occur, please contact Uncle M or myself. We are both open minded people and take all constructive critisism happily. What we don’t take is slander or negative feedback. We encourage you to comment on the photos and articles published here.
Finally, I would like to clarify my relationship status, as many people are confused by it. Uncle M is my Master, yes. He is my mentor, my teacher, my confidante, and my dearest friend. That is all. We lead our own lives, have our own families, and different hobbies. What brings us together is bondage. We both wanted something very specific and theses desires coincided one hundred percent. The lack of nudity, sex, and violence, and the protection of our identies (which are, by the way, the main beliefs of the website) are what we wanted from each other. And having gotten what we wanted, we were able to share it with all of you, our friends.